Cary Grant
The Quotebook

On the press.

Misquotation, publicity, and why he kept his opinions to himself.

He was misquoted for fifty years and developed a settled position on it, along with a refusal to hold forth in public that reads unusually well now.

The lines.

21 quotations
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My press agent was very indignant over something written about me not too long ago. ‘Look,’ I told him. ‘I’ve known this character for many years, and the faults he sees in me are really the faults in himself that he hates.’
Cary Grant · 1964 · interview · Motion Picture
On hostile journalists.
'Love – That's All Cary Grant Ever Thinks About,' Motion Picture, June 1964.
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I do! I don’t remember ever saying it in a movie, but now, every once in a while when I’m with friends, I say, ’Judeeee, Judeeee, Judeeee,’ and everyone breaks up. Isn’t that a good imitation of an imitation of an imitator?
Cary Grant · 1970 · press · Variety
Grant on the catchphrase he never actually said on screen.
'Q & A on Cary Grant,' Variety, 7 January 1970, p.45, answering Hy Gardner.
Source: Variety
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Personally, I regard every knock as a boost.
Cary Grant · 1964 · interview · Motion Picture
On press criticism.
'Love – That's All Cary Grant Ever Thinks About,' Motion Picture, June 1964.
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Take Hitler and stick him on the funny pages.
Cary Grant as Walter Burns · 1940 · film · His Girl Friday (1940)
Burns clears the front page for his own story.
Spoken as Walter Burns in His Girl Friday (1940).
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Judy, Judy, Judy.
Cary Grant · 1939 · film
The most famous line Cary Grant never said.
Traced to Only Angels Have Wings (1939) and to 1940s nightclub impressionists; Grant's own account appeared in Variety, 7 January 1970.
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Old Cary Grant fine. How you?
Cary Grant · 1959 · press
The supposed reply to a magazine editor who cabled: 'How old Cary Grant?'
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To all of you out there who do not know me, I wish you a Merry Christmas, and to all of you who do know me, I ask, ‘What the hell were you thinking?’
Cary Grant · television
Attributed to Grant in seasonal quotation round-ups.
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You’ve got an old-fashioned idea divorce is something that lasts forever, ’til death do us part.’ Why, divorce doesn’t mean anything nowadays, Hildy, just a few words mumbled over you by a judge.
Cary Grant as Walter Burns · 1940 · film · His Girl Friday (1940)
Walter Burns argues his ex-wife out of remarrying.
Spoken as Walter Burns in His Girl Friday (1940).
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I’ve been called cheap so often I no longer wince at the word.
Cary Grant · interview
On decades of stories about his thrift.
Frequently cited reply to press claims of stinginess; the original dated publication has not been established.
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I really don’t like to speak about myself... and neither do I want to bother with the many ridiculous rumors that have been told by columnists, placing me into close relations, even matrimony, with the world’s most beautiful women.
Cary Grant · 1961 · essay · Films and Filming
On the gossip columns.
'What it Means to be a Star,' Films and Filming, July 1961.
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I refuse to discuss my private life and my friendships and my family, present, past and future.
Cary Grant · 1961 · essay · Films and Filming
Setting the boundary he kept for the rest of his life.
'What it Means to be a Star,' Films and Filming, July 1961.
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I’m opposed to actors taking sides in public and spouting spontaneously about love, religion or politics.
Cary Grant · 1963 · interview
On why he kept his views out of the press.
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I improve on misquotation.
Cary Grant · 1969 · press
On being repeatedly misquoted by the press.
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As a rule, I have tended to avoid these events. I rarely go because I’m terrible at making speeches. The thought of that duty leaves me feeling helpless.
Cary Grant · 1981 · press · The Washington Post
On his discomfort with public tributes, ahead of the 1981 Kennedy Center Honors.
Gary Arnold, "The Kennedy Center Honors", The Washington Post, 6 December 1981.
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Autographs are ridiculous. When I sign one, it starts off a chain reaction. I’m not able to do anything else for the rest of the day.
Cary Grant · interview
On why he declined to sign for admirers.
Compiled undated on The Ultimate Cary Grant Pages under autographs; no dated primary publication cited.
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I don’t care what they’re saying. I’ve developed a skin like a rhino’s.
Cary Grant · interview
On the books written about him without his help.
Compiled undated on The Ultimate Cary Grant Pages under unauthorised biographies; no dated primary publication cited.
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I don’t know anything about drugs. None of the people I know is involved with drugs. Hollywood is a very hard-working town — you have to get up early, and you have to look good.
Cary Grant · 1986 · speech · Films in Review
Answering a question about drugs in old and modern Hollywood.
Maeve Druesne, "Mr. Grant Comes to Town", Films in Review, January 1987.
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I’m just horrible at making speeches. When I’ve been forced to make a speech, I always have to steal a look at my notes. And then I can never come back to the proper place in my speech. I’m good at Q’s-and-A’s.
Cary Grant · 1986 · interview · The Dallas Morning News
On preferring question-and-answer evenings to prepared speeches.
Philip Wuntch, "A Few Words with Cary Grant", The Dallas Morning News, 20 March 1986.
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Oh no, that never happened. I love that story, though. It’s a delightful, witty answer — one of the things that I wish I had said.
Cary Grant · 1986 · interview · The Dallas Morning News
Grant himself denying the most famous anecdote told about him.
Philip Wuntch, "A Few Words with Cary Grant", The Dallas Morning News, 20 March 1986, on the apocryphal "How old Cary Grant?" telegram.
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People don’t realize how distressing that sort of thing is. I’m sure they don’t or they wouldn’t do it. I get stared at all the time, and it’s annoying.
Cary Grant · 1986 · interview · The Dallas Morning News
On being recognised in public.
Philip Wuntch, "A Few Words with Cary Grant", The Dallas Morning News, 20 March 1986.
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We very rarely have the truth told about us in Hollywood. I’ve had five biographies written about me, for example, and they’re all absolute nonsense. I’ve never even met some of the people I’m supposed to have met.
Cary Grant · 1986 · speech · Films in Review
On the unauthorised biographies written about him.
Maeve Druesne, "Mr. Grant Comes to Town", Films in Review, January 1987.
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